One day when you least expect it, and you’ve let your guard down, a woman will get involved with you under the guise of friendship, and your life will become complicated and confusing. This is not always a bad thing, but it can be. Remember, if you’re feeling uneasy about her, there’s probably a basis for your anxiety.
There are several variations on the “lesbian tease” theme. Some women are straight women who enjoy the ego boost afforded them by a lesbian or two at their disposal, on call at all times. This type of tease realizes that you never know when you’ll need help with projects around the house or a last-minute companion to attend some function or party. She assumes that lesbians can be led around by their nose, once they’re hooked. I know how this woman thinks, because I am embarrassed to admit that this has happened to me a couple of times in my life, before I came to my senses.
An added benefit for the straight girl hanging out with a lesbian girlfriend is that hubby rarely blinks, as he believes there’s no way his beloved wife would be interested in a lesbo, since they don’t have the right equipment to be a true romantic threat. Men can be so clueless sometimes. Hello!
Completely aware of her husband’s mindset, the hetero “lesbian tease” knows that her husband’s arrogance keeps him blissfully blind and non- threatened. She is keenly aware of the dynamics of the threesome and works them to her advantage, while basking in the glow of her lady love’s attention, and being legitimized by her husband’s or boyfriend’s presence.
The second type of “lesbian tease” is the lesbian who sits a little too close, touches your arm frequently and bats those eyelashes in your direction with relative ease and confidence. Hair twirling and eating fruit slowly with purpose, also works to lure many unsuspecting lesbos into their game.
I know I should resist, but the tango of emotions is so intoxicating, that I find myself lured in, justifying my passive participation as harmless, as long as I keep my hands to myself. A true tease who has mastered her art is more about the seduction and less about any true relationship. She wants to know you want her, but has little interest in following through. You should be able to tell the difference between a woman sho is truly interested in a romantic relationship and one who wants to flirt, with no sincere desire to consummate the union.
For fun, you can test her if you’re unattached. A sloppy wet kiss will tell the tale. If she darts away in a hasty retreat after that kiss, she’s just playing with you. If she lingers in the kiss, looking into your eyes and pulling you close, then she’s interested in a fling at least, and possibly more. As long as you know what her agenda is, then you’re safe to decide how to proceed, given your situation.
Being vulnerable to the charms of women is the lesbian state. What can you say? Distance really helps in situations like the above. If you feel like you’re being played, you probably are. Then all you have to decide for yourself is whether the play is fun and harmless, or whether it is detrimental to your well-being in some way. Good luck as you try to decide for yourself. Just remember that being teased is not a spectator sport. You can’t blame her when you keep showing back up.
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